A friend who read my previous blog “I wanna belong!” where I had stated, ” Get a bf now n I’ll hav other troubles for free…..” has a lil doubt if I got “Boyfriend allergy” … N he has challenged me saying “Love doesnt hurt”…. Wid all due respect to ur knowledge n xperience (yea rite!!) in the field, Id like to xplain myself better!
* “Falling in Love” … aint that the dream of many singles??… all over the world?? But jus check that statement again! Love is a “FALL” !! N wat makes u think “falling” doesnt hurt!!
* I heard someone say smthing very sensible… ” Love aint wrong as long as u dont mind getting hurt!” … So true! Coz love is all abt trusting someone… but the fact remains that no human is worth trust!! Not even urself! So how can u fall in love n not get hurt! Loving a person wud mean giving ur delicate, sensitive heart to a person n trusting that the loved one wudnt break it! Ur at his/her mercy!
* The age Im in now is wen I learn the maximum, wen I build my character, my likes n dislikes. Fall in love now n I’ll start loving things that I wanna hav nuthing to do wid ! May b I’ll start listening to rock music or metal bands or try tatooing or watever… I’ve known so many girls n guys who forget their own tastes jus to connect wid their loved ones! Huh! So many ppl who fall in love n xpect their partners to change according to their taste ..n then start fighting coz they didnt change! If u wanna love then Love em jus the way they are!huh!
* Other problems include:
.Fear of family’s approval,
.Lack of concentration in studies,
.Heartaches( ” chura liya he thumne jo dil kooo…” im sure that hurts! 
) ,
.Stomach aches ( havnt u heard.. ” I get butterflies in my stomach wen I see him/her”.. butterflies?? thast gonna hurt too ) ,
.Sleepless nights! (come on.. u all know that rest is essential !)
.Blindness ( coz love is blind!) , e.t.c…
Im sure there’s gotta b more points .. But I cant think of any rite now!So u gotta b silly to think love doesnt hurt! But ofcourse, if u dont mind getting hurt, its the most beautiful relationship on earth! Not jus b/w bfs n gfs… any relationship!
The best definition of love is in the Bible. If u wanna know if ur a true Lover jus put ur name where ever the word “Love” comes n check if its true….
” Love is patient, Love is kind. Love is not jelous or boastful or proud or rude. Love doesnot demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and keeps no record of when its been wronged. Love is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. Love will last forever.” 1 Cor. 13:4-8.
Well, if u cheked that n u still think ur a true lover… then u dont need to read this blog, coz u’ll know by xperience that Loving is costly n hurts! But if u still choose to love…. I salute u brother/sister!! Coz only love could make a way… in this dark world…..
Peace.
6 Comments
August 28, 2006 at 12:17 pm
sigh its very confusing when your growing up. The thing is to keep things simple and not live life as it is. Leave everything to god
August 29, 2006 at 2:04 am
@Bluesaze: “..and not live life as it is”? Some of us dont have the liberty of options, therefore we have to live life the way it is.
@All4love:Seems you have like a ton of definitions, i hereby deem you Professor Love!
August 29, 2006 at 3:33 am
Grrr…
A friend??? I gave you the topic… Could have mentioned my name… Grrr…
August 29, 2006 at 4:21 am
@Bluesaze : How can I keep it “simple” n yet NOT live life as it is?? But depending on God for it all…. true… well said bro.
@Ben : “Liberty of option”.. nice… I’ll note that down! Man all u guys say things so well!
N thanx .. I’ll take my new designation wid a humble heart… so ppl come to me for advices on “Love” ..(yea rite!)
@Sujai : Well now they all know its u who made the challenge n lost coz “Love does hurt”.. But hats off to u to accept ur identity even as a lost challenger!
.. Atleast now u know… love hurts…
September 28, 2006 at 5:25 am
* You could fall into a soft cushioned mattress !
…. can’t help you there !
…good one !
* No human is worth trust ?! how rude ! And i’m telling you- love is worth the trouble ! Getting hurt becomes insignificant when you’re in true love ! There’s beauty,comfort in being dependent too .
* If you don’t wanna change, don’t change. Find someone who loves you for the person you are . Who do you think you need to change for him to like you ?
* Love is not for the faint-hearted. Just like war !
* Lack of concentration …hmmm …. we’ll blame our hormones for that !
* If u lost your heart….hmmmm….
* Stomach aches ?!
* Sleepless nights ?! …… tried reading a book on microprocessors ???!!!
* Blindness….. Darn i lost my chance !?
My verdict – Love hurts ! Just like saying i hate the chocolate bcos it comes in the yellow cover !!!! …
….. get it ?!
September 29, 2006 at 4:42 pm
hehehe…. I was laughing all the while…. well said Bobby… emmm… so may b i’ll think of findin a bf some time soon
Naaa… not yet! To be or not to be in love… Ahhh… Im not in a mood for love talk right now!! So may b I’ll think abt it later…